With that being said, another big change is upon our household, my "baby boy" is turning 2! I cannot believe it. Seriously. Just feels like yesterday that I found out I was pregnant with him. I'm saddened that he will no longer be a baby. He's getting so big and talking and doing so much everyday. He still is my snuggle buddy and requires "mommy" to do everything for him. It's just a weird feeling that he's so grown now. Yes I know 2 isn't "too grown" but he's not baby status anymore. He's potty trained, has a hysterical personality and learning so much everyday. He loves his big sister, pirates and playing with cars, trucks and the occasional dress up costume.
The hubs and I were reflecting on his birth & how different both of our kids births were. The second time around I was more relaxed and even at times, enjoyed myself. I was in control and felt it too. I wanted to share this life changing moment with you. Every mother has their own story and I personally love hearing them all.
So, here I go:
July 19th 2011, I woke up and had a feeling that might be the day. Nikolas had significantly dropped, so much so, I texted my bestie and she agreed. We went to a fellow friends daughters party and everyone said, wow! He will be born soon. I had contractions from 34 weeks on and even spent a day in the hospital with the possibility of being medivac'd to a hospital across the bay. However, that day, I didn't have more than the normal Braxton hicks.
We went home and put C to bed. Took a shower and got myself a bowl of ice cream. Not 10 mins later, I started having contractions; nothing too bad but enough to make me wonder. Within 20 mins, I was having severe contractions. Keith called the doctor, and he informed us to come to the hospital. After calling the doctor, he called our friends, who are basically family, and they came right over and A spent the night with C. The 25 min ride to the hospital never felt so long...
I swore that he was going to make his debut in the car. C was born in less than 8 hours, so I thought he would come faster. The admitted me into the hospital and was officially going to have a baby. We were making our guesses on his arrival but then, he wanted to slow things down. Like WAAAAAYYYY down. The night progressed and I slowly did too. Morning came and I was about 5 cm. I breathed throughout the process and felt all his little body moving into position. It was such an experience. However, I was exhausted.
Around noon, I felt my body progress faster and harder. I sort of felt like I went into another place. Like I floated above my body and knew that I was nearing the end. It was becoming more painful and exhausting. Hubs was great and never left my side. About 230pm, my doctor came back in and asked me again if I wante any relief. Throughout all those hours, I said no, but at this moment, I said please. Not 10mins after recieving medication, I said, I need to push. Before I even started labor, months prior to his birth, I knew I wanted to watch an assist in his birth. It was something I felt compelled to do. After a quick check, my doctor said to start pushing. I was seriously so calm. Didn't know where this came from but I was in the zone. Pain medication didn't work and even though I felt everything, I also felt bliss. I watched as I pushed my sons head out and assisted in grabbing his head and body as well. At 3:15pm on July 20th 2011, Nikolas Eric Nelson was born after 21 hours of labor.
He was immediately put on my chest crying and as soon as I started to talk to him, he stopped crying an we stared at each other. Then I put him to nurse and like a champ, latched on beautifully. I was in heaven. I loved him and our new family so much. I couldn't stop looking at this wonderful creation we made.
Watching C meet him for the first time was incredible. She shared her trains, which was a feat to say the least, and loved him so much.
Thinking about this makes me feel like time has zipped by. But also feels like he has always been here. God has blessed me with 2 beautiful children.
Nikolas right at birth!